So basicly...

here is what I want in a male; the top ten;

1. Shy
2. Conservative
3. Traditional
4. Practical
5. Intellectual
6. Big-Hearted
7. Funny
8. Romantic
9. Wealthy/Ambitious
10. Adventurous

and the top three trait descriptions

Shy - You are put off by people who are open books. You are drawn to someone who is a bit more mysterious. You want to draw him out of his shell and get to know what he is all about.
Conservative - Forget liberals, you need a conservative match. Political discussions interest you, and a conservative will offer the viewpoint you need.
Traditional - You need someone who is a bit old-fashioned. A person with traditional values and beliefs will perfectly compliment your lifestyle.